[His] disciples said to him, “If that is the case (divorce is not permitted) of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” He answered, “Not all can accept [this] word, but only those to whom that is granted. Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it.” Mt. 19:12
“But when Bishop Demetrius found out that Origen (a lay theologian living in Alexandria), had preached during the divine liturgy (in Palestine), he was incensed. Such a thing was not permitted in Alexandria. Origen was promptly summoned to return home… About fifteen years after this incident … Origen was invited to come to Athens to help resolve an issue there, and Demetrius let him go. On the way, he made a brief stop in Palestine. Once again, the bishops begged him to preach during the liturgy. Origen declined, reminding them of his bishop’s objections to a layman preaching. His hosts fully understood his dilemma and came up with a simple solution to the problem––they ordained him to the priesthood on the spot. Instead of appeasing Demetrius, this enraged him. Eusebius (an early Church historian) identifies jealousy as the motive for what happened next. Demetrius evidently began to circulate the story that, in a moment of rash, youthful zeal following his father’s martyrdom, Origen had not only embraced celibacy, but had taken Matthew 19:12 too far by castrating himself. Since tradition forbade the ordination of eunuchs, the ordination, he insisted, was invalid.” D'Ambrosio, Marcellino. When the Church Was Young: Voices of the Early Fathers (p. 90-91). Franciscan Media. Kindle Edition.
All that makes sense. The Church doesn’t limit God. The scriptures don’t limit God. The sacraments don’t limit God. The elders, the Church, the scriptures and the sacraments are sure paths to God, but nothing can limit the work of the Spirit of God."Do not prevent him. There is no one who performs a mighty deed in my name who can at the same time speak ill of me. For whoever is not against us is for us.” Mk. 9:38-43.
We should not forget that in the Middle East physical punishment of this sort is still meted out to convicted criminals. Better to cut off a gangrenous limb than risk the whole body. Better to recall bad hamburger than risk spreading more disease.If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter into life maimed than with two hands to go into Gehenna, into the unquenchable fire. And if your foot causes you to sin, cut if off. It is better for you to enter into life crippled than with two feet to be thrown into Gehenna. And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. Better for you to enter into the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into Gehenna, where 'the worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched.” Mk. 9:47-48.