“My child, conduct your affairs with humility, and you will be loved more than a giver of gifts. Humble yourself the more, the greater you are, and you will find favor with God. What is too sublime for you, seek not, into things beyond your strength search not. The mind of a sage appreciates proverbs, and an attentive ear is the joy of the wise. Water quenches a flaming fire, and alms atone for sins.” Sirach 3:17-29
What would he do? Jesus decides to teach the scholars about humility. Imagine the scene, everybody deciding where they were going to sit for dinner. Everyone was trying to sit near the host, a prominent local leader. This story is about the people in the room. Jesus said,“people there were observing him carefully.”
Honor and shame are deeply ingrained in first century Mediterranean culture and ours. Honor decides your place in community and shame describes your separation from the good opinion of others. Public shaming on Twitter and other public formats is still the way cultural elites try to control others. So is Jesus publicly shaming the other guest? Clearly, he is teaching them to think of themselves in a different way."When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not recline at table in the place of honor. A more distinguished guest than you may have been invited by him, and the host who invited both of you may approach you and say, 'Give your place to this man,' and then you would proceed with embarrassment to take the lowest place. Rather, when you are invited, go and take the lowest place” Luke 14:1-14
Jesus is teaching both how we ought to live in the present age and in the age to come. Let others decide your place at table and let them invite you to the upper place. Then you will enjoy the esteem of others because it has been conferred on you by your host. God knows where we belong. Then Jesus turns to his host and began to teach him.“For every one who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted."
Humble love is doing something for the good of others. You don’t want to be engaged in actions where repayment is the sole calculation. This is consistent with Jesus’ preaching throughout his ministry. He advises us to store our treasures in heaven. (19 th Sunday)"When you hold a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment.”
Humility is learning to love what God loves and detest what God detests. By the way, God loves bugs. He made a lot of them.“Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."
THROUGH ME THE WAY INTO THE SUFFERING CITY,
THROUGH ME THE WAY TO THE ETERNAL PAIN,
THROUGH ME THE WAY THAT RUNS AMONG THE LOST.
JUSTICE URGED ON MY HIGH ARTIFICER;
MY MAKER WAS DIVINE AUTHORITY,
THE HIGHEST WISDOM, AND THE PRIMAL LOVE.
BEFORE ME NOTHING BUT ETERNAL THINGS
WERE MADE, AND I ENDURE ETERNALLY.
ABANDON EVERY HOPE, WHO ENTER HERE